To be honest though, I wasn't always the bold, spirited, walking juxtaposition I am today.
Glamorous and adventurous. Full of grit and Jesus-supplied grace. Playful and serious. Really into the color black and blaring worship music. Obedient to God and still wild + free. Ambitious in my career and intent on savoring life.
I’ve been the insecure adolescent struggling to find her footing and voice. The fiance battling the pressures of expectation and a devil who wanted us apart. The emerging photographer struggling with tsunamis of imposter syndrome and self-doubt. The wife who’s faced multiple relocations and needing to completely rebuild her business.
Like I'm willing to bet for you, life has taken me on an adventure... BUT GOD.
Because the truth is, when we’re confident we not only show up for ourselves, but we show up for others, too. We step into our purpose and really embrace our lives.
That right there is what it's all about for me.
Yes, I’m a wedding photographer and I’m here to capture the important, can-never-be-recreated moments in your life. And yes, I’m a coach and educator here to help you own and run a successful photography business that doesn’t own you.
But to be honest...
After 7-years of long-distance dating and our fair share of storms, Clay and I decided above it all, above the big wedding and fancy details, we wanted to be married the most. Despite the push back and questions we faced from loved ones, we knew we wanted to start our first day as husband and wife in a way that honored us, and the new adventure laid before us.
So we wed at my aunt's kitchen table with my pastor (and my aunt's cat.) No frills, just each other and a lifelong covenant.
Shortly after being married, Clay received military orders to Okinawa, Japan where we spent the next 3 years as newlyweds. Oh... little big detail: Had we not gotten married when we did, I wouldn’t have been able to go with him. My pastor also sadly passed away shortly after. Having him marry us was the one detail that really mattered to me. C’mon, you can’t plan for that!
Our experience profoundly changed the way I saw and understood the concept of a “wedding day” and led me to working with other couples who wanted to pursue the road less traveled, too.
Clay and I started dating in 2010; old-school, long distance, military style. We had to write letters to each other while he was in Air Force basic training in San Antonio. He graduated in March, and we spent a week together with our families on the Riverwalk, young and in love. I also got my first camera for Christmas, and took photos of my dogs weekly!
I graduated from high school and was finally able to get away from a group of mean girls who ironically, taught me a very important lesson: never dim your light or hide in fear to make others feel more comfortable. We have to embrace our identity as children of God; as fearfully and wonderfully made. I vowed to never shy away from His light in me again.
I spent the bulk of the year in college at TAMUT, then joined Clayton for the summer on the emerald coast of Florida (where he was stationed). I spent those summer days strolling along the picturesque 30A, dreaming of running a photography business on those white-sand beaches. I remember telling God, “One day, I’ll live in Florida, and one day, I’ll be a photographer.” Spoiler alert: both happened.
I spent the year surrounded by college textbooks, tilapia + broccoli, and dumbbells. I won the Miss Texarkana preliminary pageant, and then competed in the Miss Texas pageant (yes, the Miss America Organization one!) - hence the food + fitness focus. I finished 13 out of 67, which for my first legit pageant, I’d say isn’t too shabby! I also shot my very first wedding that year for a friend and was hooked.
I officially started my photography business… well, accidentally. I launched my Facebook Business Page before it was officially “ready” -- #doitscared, am I right? But since it already had a few likes (and over 500 in two days), I began taking on clients. My business grew rapidly, and the rest was history. (That's my first photoshoot, pictured above!)
Even though my business took off, it still came with its fair share of challenges. So being named the best in Texarkana was a really proud moment! I also graduated from Texas A&M University, started running my business full-time, and pursued my dream of moving to Florida with Clay.
Living on a 60-mile-long island in the middle of the Pacific Ocean is an adjustment for anyone - let alone newlyweds. Thankfully, God made this such a sweet season and adventure for us. I learned how to slow down and savor life, how to put my marriage and husband first, and developed a passion for working with other couples.
Like pretty much all of the world in 2020, we spent most of the year quarantined after a 3-year period of living in Okinawa. But I will say, it felt so good to be back at home. Living abroad really makes you thankful for American conveniences and food - ummm, ChickFilA, anyone? I put the extra time at home to good use by revamping the JVP brand, and introducing the Purposeful Photographer Program.
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Ya know, in case you were wondering…(you were, weren’t you?). Hey, when you’re exploring remote places of the world together, it doesn’t hurt to have a few things in common.
The short version of a long story: Clay helped rescue young members of a soccer team that were stuck in a cave - (Google Tham Luang Cave Rescue). It was no easy task and the King was so appreciative he gifted each person involved in the rescue a trip to Thailand. We chose Krabi and the Phi Phi Islands for our trip, and had a blast!
In August of 2019, Clay and I boarded a plane to Bali to meet with one of my favorite business coaches, Maya Elious. I spent two VIP days with her building the framework for The Purposeful Photographer Program, surrounded by the most beautiful scenery.
Hands down our fav place we’ve ever been! We spent three weeks living out of a campervan, so we could wake up to a new sunrise over the mountains each morning, and watch it set over a new mountain, too.
I can’t get enough of how new landscapes force you to get outside and feel small, next to a pretty big God. Here are a few destinations that have left a stamp on my heart.